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Why You Need To Pray First and Problem Solve Second

in Spiritual Growth on 05/03/18

Do you catch yourself trying to problem solve and when nothing seems to work you then pause and ask Christ for help?

Our son has experienced trauma for the first decade of his life- being only thirteen- that’s really all he knows. He came to us when he was nine, finally got stability, food, and a warm bed. However, he still had to deal with the lies of his birth mom, canceled visits, and the trauma when her rights were severed.

After moving to Ohio, he still had a lot to accept and deal with mentally and emotionally. He moved from the only state he’s ever known. He moved out of a very Spanish driven culture to a white/Italian driven town. He gained aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins- which he’s never had before. His name change, his school changed, and his mother changed.

These things would be difficult for anyone, especially a small child.

All things considered, he is doing good. He loves us, loves Chase, and loves his life here. He is just still hurting and because of that, it comes out in many different ways.

I’ve spent countless hours researching online how to help him. I spoke with other friends who have adopted older children. I’ve called therapists in hopes they could point me to someone who’s worked with adopted children with trauma. I’ve set up appointments and shared our experience with any professional with a listening ear. I would question everything I read and wondered if it would work. I was uncertain about the steps to take next and often went to bed feeling defeated.

I wanted to help my son in any way possible. I would implement everything as a trial and error and would get so frustrated because it seemed like nothing was working. Nothing the experts were suggesting was making an impact. Nothing was helping him with his trauma.

His stutter is rooted in trauma and can become very minimal or almost non-existent until he experiences something that’s a trigger. These triggers cause him to struggle to get a single sentence out.

When I see him struggling and become frustrated- it breaks my heart. I want nothing more than for him to speak with freedom and ease. I hope one day he does and preaches the gospel to those who are hurting and broken. What a testimony that will be!

James and I were talking about what to do, what our next steps will be, and who we could call. I expressed that I felt like I have exhausted every possibility and all I could do was pray.

At that moment something in me clicked. I’ve spent countless hours researching, making calls, and implementing everything that has been suggested but have yet to ask God for help.

I forgot to go to the one who is the Healer. The one who speaks life and truth. The one who created my son and knows the depths of his heart.

During this time I came across a video my friend Kristen, from college posted. She and her husband lead an amazing church in Harlem and I encourage you to follow their ministry. Kristen shared a story about her precious baby daughter crying and how they tried everything they could think of to bring comfort and end the tears. At the end of the day, they decided to pray for her and for guidance. That night their daughter slept all the way through for the very first time. While sharing this story Kristen said something that tugged at my heart. She said that we often try to problem solve, live in our own will, do things our own way and when things don’t work out, we then pray. When in reality what we need to do is “Pray first, Problem-solve second.”

1 Chronicles 16:11 says, “Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always.” 

When she spoke these words I knew that’s exactly what I’ve been doing with our son. I was overworking myself to problem solve and when everything failed- that is when I prayed.  I needed to stop striving to exhaustion before coming to Christ for help.

What are you trying to problem solve right now that you haven’t gone to Christ first with?

After I went to Christ about my son, He spoke to my heart on what to do next. My son, when upset, can believe the lies of his past and the lies from his biological mother. I want my son to believe the truth of the word and speak that over his life. I printed scriptures to hang in his room so he wakes up seeing the truth and goes to bed seeing the truth.

Whenever there is a conflict that is rooted in trauma or a trigger is set off- we stop and pray. We give the power and control to Christ first.

Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”

Sweet friend, He will give you all the answers you’re looking for to solve your problem. Whether that is speaking directly to your heart, leading you to certain books or people, He will guide your steps. It’s easy to believe the lies that things won’t go smoothly. It’s easy to believe the lies that you will never figure out how to handle the giant in front of you. It’s easy to give up and turn your problem into a failure.

Can I gently remind you that your problems will be solved simply because you prayed first. You will be filled with peace and confidence in your decisions moving forward because you took the time to Pray First-Problem Solve Second.

 

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  1. Pegg says

    May 3, 2018 at 11:56 am

    God has blessed you with the gift of writing and I appreciate you sharing your gift with us. I’ve read every post of yours and come away refreshed and re-directed to Jesus. Thank you.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 3, 2018 at 12:34 pm

      Wow, THANK YOU for such a kind and genuine compliment. I appreciate more than I could express. Thank you for reading- it blesses me to hear you are refreshed and re-directed to Jesus!

      Reply
  2. Sydney Meek says

    May 3, 2018 at 6:34 pm

    Amen! I always try to take control of my situation and solve problems on my own, but lately I’ve started to let God take control and it gives me so much rest! Thanks for this sweet reminder.

    Sydney Meek | meeklyloving.com

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 4, 2018 at 11:19 am

      Thank you for sharing!

      Reply
  3. Dawn Benson Jones says

    May 3, 2018 at 7:06 pm

    Thank you for this beautiful and important reminder!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 4, 2018 at 11:18 am

      It’s my pleasure!

      Reply
  4. Leah says

    May 4, 2018 at 9:01 am

    Such an important lesson. I grew up with two adopted girls who stuttered from trauma- neither one stutters anymore. You son will learn he is safe and can trust you, hang in there, Mama! I’m in the NYC area, going to check out that church!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 4, 2018 at 11:18 am

      IT’s so encouraging to hear they do not stutter anymore! Yes- go check them out!

      Reply
  5. Alice Mills says

    May 4, 2018 at 9:47 pm

    The Lord has led me into some very special healing sessions with my daughters. I always have to remind myself that He loves them more than I.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 7, 2018 at 12:33 pm

      Amen!

      Reply
  6. Sheila Schweiger-Rhodes says

    May 4, 2018 at 10:44 pm

    Prayer is my lifeline. I had a similar conversation with a friend who was struggling and shared all she could do was pray. I told her the best thing you can do is pray. Many times we treat prayer like the last resort instead of the first line of defense. However, I believe it is because the enemy loves to make us self-reliant rather than Jesus reliant. It is great to have resources, but if we are not going to the SOURCE it might as well all be in vain. I wish I could say I have always done this, but I haven’t. It is only through growing in my relationship with Christ that God has opened my eyes and given me wisdom to appreciate the gift of prayer.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 7, 2018 at 12:33 pm

      I love what you said here. It’s great to have resources but if we’re not going to THE source then it’s all in vain. SOOOO TRUE!

      Reply
  7. Karen Friday says

    May 5, 2018 at 11:26 am

    This is so vulnerable and rich, Heather. And these lines are powerful, “At that moment something in me clicked. I’ve spent countless hours researching, making calls, and implementing everything that has been suggested but have yet to ask God for help. I forgot to go to the one who is the Healer.” Yes, we sometimes forget. And we underestimate the power of prayer. I’m joining you by praying over your son. God is able.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 7, 2018 at 12:31 pm

      Thank you, Karen, for your kind words. I appreciate them. Thank you for praying with me.

      Reply
  8. Neethu ann says

    May 5, 2018 at 3:01 pm

    Wow! Totally agree! Before we even think of crying out to man or taking matters into our own hands, we need to sit at the feet of Jesus from where everything is given a clarity and peace that surpasses all understanding.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 7, 2018 at 12:30 pm

      Yes!

      Reply
  9. Amy @ The Quiet Homemaker says

    May 7, 2018 at 1:22 pm

    Oh, my heart! You are amazing and I love this post! It is so very true in my life as well. I want to turn to my Father first but fail so many times. I pray that He will lead me in this area!

    I would love to have you link up with us @LiveLifeWell link party!!!

    Blessings,

    Amy

    Reply
    • Heather says

      May 7, 2018 at 1:24 pm

      Aww, thank you. I would love to learn more about linking up with you =)

      Reply

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I remember coming home and sitting on my bed with my new Bible in my hand. I sat there thinking of everything I was told that night and how it reminded me of everything I was taught when I was a little girl. ••••
After sitting there for awhile, I prayed for the very first time. Out loud I said, “OK God, if you are who they say you are, then why would you send your son to die for me, why wouldn’t you just die for me?”
••••
Immediately, and when I say immediately I truly mean with no hesitation a thought came into my mind. I heard, “Doesn’t a parent love their child so much that they would die for them? I love you so much more then that, that I would allow my child to die for YOU.”
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I knew the thought that had entered my mind was not from me. I knew it was God speaking directly to me. Since that day, I’ve followed Jesus, learning more about Him, and have dedicated my life to sharing about eternal life through Christ and all the goodness He is. ••••
The world will tell you religion is all about rules and what not to do. Can I personally tell you, that is not true. Following Jesus has given me freedom to truly live. I GET to do things because of Jesus. ••••
I get to love others because Jesus taught me how to love. 
I get to give to others because Jesus has given so much to me. 
I get to truly forgive because Jesus forgave me. 
I get to heal from the hurts life has thrown at me because Jesus has healed me. 
I get to live a life full of JOY because joy comes from Jesus! 
And sooo much more! ••••
My prayer for you is to passionately serve Jesus, have eternal life through Him, and to truly experience what is feels to live a life of freedom.
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I spent a semester in Israel during my college yea I spent a semester in Israel during my college years @seuniversity. It was two months after James and I got married so, our first few months as a married couple were spent walking the same streets of Jesus. To say it was a cool experience would be an understatement. •••••••
During my time in Israel there were two moments that took my breath away. One of those moments was being in the literally prison hole that Jesus stayed in the night before He died. •••••••
Historical sites are given a grading scale. An A site is “this is for sure the site that XYZ took place.” An B site is “XYZ took place here OR there” And a C site is “XYZ took place somewhere in this region.” •••••••
Jesus holding cell is an A site. •••••••
I stood in the prison with my fellow students and professor and his family. We sang the hymn - “I Have Decided To Follow Jesus.” It was the only time there I wept like a baby. Snot and all haha! •••••••
But man, to be where your savior was knowing what was to come and He chose to do it anyways. I’ve never felt more love in that moment then I have in my entire life. ••••••••
So today, my prayer is for you to feel that same love. To know Jesus died today for YOU and that He came back for YOU! You are His chosen child. •
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I don’t believe we will ever be in a time like t I don’t believe we will ever be in a time like this again; where we’re forced to stay home, have no schedule, and simply enjoy each other. •
•

My heart is with all those who are working in the medical field and all the families affected by COVID-19. We lost my uncle this morning to this horrible virus. I’ve been praying for my family and yours and will continue to do so. •
•

So, I want to serve you and since i cannot physically be there with you, I can pray for you. How can I be praying for you today?
•
•
HEATHERMARGIOTTA.COM
I posted last night how I would be sharing with yo I posted last night how I would be sharing with you today what the beginning of 2020 held for my family which caused me to take a pause on writing. •
•

In January we lost my sweet mother-in-law very suddenly. It was a shock to us all and has taken us a bit to wrap our minds around. •
•

In addition to the loss of my mother-in-law, we’ve been navigating some health struggles. Now, with everything going on in our world, I can say it’s def been a year so far. •
•

But, God is good. If it’s not good- then it doesn’t come from God. The enemy is very real but nothing to fear because our God is bigger. •
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•
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Hi, friend. I know it’s been awhile and I have Hi, friend. 
I know it’s been awhile and I have a post going up tomorrow that explains what the beginning of 2020 has held for myself and my family. 
But, I wanted to get one here tonight to share something that has been on my heart. 
You cannot turn on the TV or pick up your phone without the word “COVID-19” blaring at you. While it’s wise to be informed, these are times many can become anxious, full of fear, and worry. 
Friend, this is our time. And what I mean by that, it’s the Church body’s time. It’s our time to rise up and praise the name of Jesus louder then any other name or word. 
Can I remind you that Jesus conquered every sickness and disease! 
Every. Single. One. 
When He died on that cross. 
And He rose again. 
There are a lot of different beliefs on healing, authority, and what role it plays in our life today. I want to encourage you to seek Jesus through His word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you to His truth. 
When you find yourself reading this, do me a favor and pause. Look up Psalm 91. Read it, listen to it on repeat on the Bible app, and dwell in the presence of God. 
And then, wake up tomorrow knowing you are a child of the most high King- who rescues you from every attack of the enemy, who protects you from deadly diseases, who is covering you with His feathers and providing you shelter. 
I love you, friend. I’m praying for you.
It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE! It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE!
•
•
•
🎉🎉🎉
•
•
•
As a THANK YOU for being here AND being an email subscriber you will receive Loving The Life You Live E-Book with a printable Manifesto for FREE!
•
•
•
I've spent the past few months writing on 9 simple truths to knowing who you are in Christ. •
•
•
If you’ve been a follower of Jesus for some time, my hope is this book will be a reminder of God’s truth on who He says you are in His eyes. •
•
•
If you're new in your relationship with Christ or are still trying to figure it out and need a little more guidance on finding out who you’re  created to be, this book will be perfect for you. •
•
•
I pray this mini e-book will be an encouragement to your heart and for it to be a tool you use while you share the truths of Jesus with those around you. •
•
•
If you’re already subscribed, check your inbox!
•
•
•
If you're not a subscriber, click the LINK IN BIO and enter your email address.
Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 b Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 but I’m going to share my number one photo for this year. This photo represents an answer to prayer in my life and reminds me of the love and faithfulness of my Savior. •
•
•

My family and I just got back from spending a week in South Carolina for Christmas with my parents. •
•
•

Today was a day full of unpacking, cleaning, grocery shopping, and getting back into our normal routine. •
•
•

But, this morning while everyone slept I spent time praying and drinking some coffee. I have so many ideas, goals, and big dreams for my blog and this ministry. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who has used my blog posts to build a women’s ministry curriculum for her neighboring village in western part of Kenya. •
•
•

I thought about my reader in Papua New Guinea who is new in her faith walk and a simple google search looking for more of God’s word led her to my site. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who leads her local church with her husband here is the USA and was looking for a fellow female Christian to connect with and have a space to talk about things she can’t with those around her. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who was diagnosed with a life altering illness and found my site while searching for scripture on healing. •
•
•

I thought about you. The one who has visited and read time and time again. Who has listened while I shared from the deep parts of my heart on the struggles, the wins, the rejections, and the answered prayers of my life. Who has sent encouraging messages, shared feelings, and prayers. Who has in turn opened up to me and shared from the depths of their heart. •
•
•

As you know, I refer to my readers as ‘friend’ and that’s because a friend shows up, listens, encourages, shares, and prays. So, thank you. Thank you for being a friend. 
I’m looking forward to this new year with you as I share more of what God continues to lay on my heart. I’ll continue to look forward to hear from you as we do this journey of life together. •
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Love you friend.
Hi, friend. • • • I’ve been taking things Hi, friend. •
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I’ve been taking things slow over here to enjoy as much of this baby season as humanly possible. Getting to hold and kiss Colton everyday, all day long is a huge blessing I don’t want to take for granted. •
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Because of that, my writing and speaking have been moving slower. I’ve had moments where I’ve shared with James the tug and pull I feel everyday, each week. There’s so many things I want to be doing, creating, sharing but I have to pick and choose right now. •
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Tonight, I was feeding Colton before putting him to bed. When he was done with his bottle I sat it down but kept holding him while finishing a tv show. I heard him cooing and I look down and this precious face was staring up at me with the sweetest smile. •
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Pure joy and love on his face. •
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Friend, here’s your friendly reminder to keep on praying and believing that God has already won the battle, flattened the mountain, and straightened your path. •
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After 2 and 1/2 years of barrenness and praying for this beautiful baby, my Heavenly Father so lovingly answered my prayer with the sweetest boy. •
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I feel closer to Jesus because I pressed into Him during my waiting season and I want the same for you. •
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Press in. •
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And when your prayer is answered: enjoy. every. part. of. it. •
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Even if that means other things need to move slower. •
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Love you, friend. ❤️
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