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Healthy Habits For A Healthier Marriage

in Relationships, Spiritual Growth on 01/04/18

‌The other night James and I were talking about our lives, calling, and dreams God’s given us. James was feeling discouraged and unsure of his next steps and was sharing this with me. The next morning I was praying for him and his future and I asked God to give him an idea. An idea of something to do that would remind him of his calling, igniting a new passion and a refreshed mind.   

An hour or so later James called me on his lunch break, he said that he was praying and had an idea. He explained his idea and his heart and asked what I thought. I shared with excitement what I prayed for that morning and how wonderful the idea was. James shared that while he was praying over his idea he asked God to use me as a confirmation because his idea was a little outside of the box.

Not only was it exciting to see God speak to both of us and use our relationship as a tool for confirmation, it’s also a moment that was used to bring us closer and make our marriage stronger. It’s having moments like this that moves our relationship towards Christ and centered around Him.

There are days where I see how I don’t connect with James. You know, where you essentially coexist and aren’t intentional about feeding into your marriage. Between our jobs, kids, the house, friends, family, and church- we are really strapped for time. We fill our schedule with things we’re passionate about but sometimes we forget to intentionally be passionate about our marriage. When this happens we feel the effects of it right away. The way we talk to each other changes, our patience is short, and our attention is spent elsewhere. We then take a step back and realize we need to invest in our marriage. We do, but then the cycle tends to repeats itself. We have learned to not only feed our marriage when it’s hungry but to continuously feed it so it’s always full.

Praying together is the foundational action all couples must take, including James and I. We spend time praying alone, but praying together nurtures the bond of us becoming one. We align our hearts with God by spending time alone with Him but as a couple, we need our hearts aligned to one another with Christ as the center.

I love sitting down with a good cup of coffee and just talking. Conversation nights is what I like to call them, James may call it my chatty nights ;). Before we were engaged we spent a year long distance, I was going to college in Florida and James was in California. All we could do was talk on the phone, and for one year- every day, we did just that. It was a sweet time in our relationship and is ultimately what prepared us for marriage. Now that we’re almost a decade into our marriage, we still need to be intentional with our conversations. It reminds me of the friendship side of our relationship and nurtures it so we may never lose it.

Investing in your children is something all couples should do, especially together. I know there are a lot of families where there’s a parent who is distant even though they live in the same house. I never want my children to be close to one of us and not the other. Family Nights are some of my favorite evenings and it’s these nights where James and I pour into our family. We all play board games or do a fun seasonal activity. Recently, we played Operation- you know that game from your childhood. James and I both thought it would be an easy game since it’s for children. Twenty minutes in we’re all struggling to get a piece out and laughing so hard. A child’s relationship with their parent(s) must be fed too. I want my kids to feel safe talking with us and we see we want to spend time with them. My prayer for them is to passionately serve Jesus and have our “parent only” relationship form into a blend of “parent/friendship” once they reach adulthood. James and I immediately feel closer to one another when we pour into our children, it nurtures the parenting side of our relationship and reminds us that we are in this together.

One of my favorite things is when James leaves me a thoughtful note. I particularly had a hard evening and James noticed, so the next morning I woke up to an encouraging note taped to our bathroom mirror. It was exactly what I needed that day and I’ve never forgotten. Randomly, I will send James a text to read when he wakes up, or he will send me one throughout the day or leave notes like James did that one time. It’s a sweet gesture that goes the extra step of expressing our care and support for one another. When James leaves these notes, it shows me that he not only was listening but that he cares to go out of his way to lift me up. Maybe you and your spouse’s love language differs than ours, so I encourage you to spend time fulfilling that area of your marriage. If you are unfamiliar with the concept of love languages I suggest you check it out here.

James is my best friend and I want the same for you and your spouse. I know things can get hard and marriages often go through seasons of struggle. James and I have been there, but even through it all, we saw God’s grace and felt Him while we walked through those rough patches.

There may be moments you wonder if your marriage will make it. I promise, it can as long as you and your spouse both want it to because Jesus wants the same. Whatever season of life you are in or whatever difficulty you are facing, you and your spouse can survive it. James and I don’t have a perfect marriage and to some, we haven’t been married that long, but I hope what I shared affirms your relationship or encourages you to take steps towards a stronger foundation.

My prayer for you as you enter a new year is for your marriage to be strengthened, refreshed, and renewed. And to know that no matter how many years you’ve been married, God can restore what is broken and birth a deeper love.

 

 

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  1. Heather Hart says

    January 4, 2018 at 10:16 am

    These are such great habits to have. One thing I have seen through out our marriage is that the way we carry out these habits doesn’t always look the same, but they are always there in one form or another, to one degree or another. Thanks for sharing what they look like in your life.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 4, 2018 at 11:46 am

      Exactly! It looks different for every couple that is for sure!

      Reply
  2. Emily says

    January 4, 2018 at 11:09 am

    I love the things you point out that help you grow closer to your spouse. It’s crazy how much of a difference it makes when spouses actually take time to spend together!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 4, 2018 at 11:46 am

      Right!? Something so small as intentionally having a conversation or going for a walk does sooo much!

      Reply
  3. Susan Evans says

    January 4, 2018 at 12:14 pm

    It’s wonderful when God prompts both of you separately, to do the same thing. God prompted me to give $100 a month to another missionary when my daughter had just gotten surgery that was expensive and it made no sense. I told God to tell my husband. My husband that same day stopped in the middle of the street on our walk and told me that we should support this missionary. We did it, and the next month my husband got a $100 raise. I am still laughing at how funny God is!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 4, 2018 at 12:22 pm

      I LOVE that story! Thank you for sharing! It is a PERFECT example of generosity and God blessing that!

      Reply
  4. Patricia Willoughby says

    January 4, 2018 at 2:55 pm

    What a great example you’re setting for not only your children but also other couples around you. Keep doing the right thing.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 4, 2018 at 3:53 pm

      Thank you Patricia, that is such a nice thing for you to say. =)

      Reply
  5. Melissa says

    January 4, 2018 at 3:50 pm

    Outside of our relationship with God, our marriage is to be the most sacred. Unfortunately there are times that we can become complacent. Thank you for the great reminders and examples on ways to continue making our marriages a top priority.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 4, 2018 at 3:56 pm

      Thank you for your kind words. You are so right, marriage is the next most sacred relationship and I think people forget that! It is the ONLY relationship where you make a public commitment to and become one in.

      Thank you for reading.

      Reply
  6. Julie says

    January 4, 2018 at 8:04 pm

    These are great habits and are a good reminder to me to make sure I’m being intentional about my marriage amidst kids and life! Thank you!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 8, 2018 at 3:31 pm

      You’re welcome, Julie!

      Reply
  7. Alice Mills says

    January 4, 2018 at 9:04 pm

    I love seeing couples treating each other with not just respect but tenderness. When my adult children remark on how gentle my husband and I are together, I know we are doing something right.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 8, 2018 at 3:31 pm

      Yes! You are doing something right!

      Reply
  8. Blyss Harwell says

    January 6, 2018 at 9:14 am

    I absolutely love this! I have received great ideas! It is so hard to remember to connect with your husband with the busy everyday life going on. We have to be intentional and have times to pour into our relationships and family and silent moments to hear God. If not we just tread water until one day we wake up and aren’t happy anymore! I’m working on everything you talked about! Thank you!
    http://www.blyssyourheart.com

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 8, 2018 at 3:32 pm

      So true! It is so hard when there is something many things pulling you all different directions. What ways do you stay connected with your spouse?

      Reply
  9. Holly Lasha says

    January 6, 2018 at 11:36 am

    What a wonderful reminder. I love it when God speaks to both my husband and myself separately about the same thing and we come together with that confirmation. Golden.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 8, 2018 at 3:33 pm

      It truly is golden =)

      Reply
  10. Katie Braswell says

    January 6, 2018 at 12:51 pm

    Amen! I love this! It’s so important to pour our energy into our marriages! God has set us apart and sanctified these bonds, and they should be cared for! I can attest to prayer being one of the most important acts in a marriage! It drives us, as a couple and as individuals, closer to God. <3 Thank you for sharing!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 8, 2018 at 3:33 pm

      Amen!

      Reply
  11. Sarah says

    January 11, 2018 at 12:00 am

    This is such a well-done article! Thank you for sharing your experiences and tips. I was particularly touched by the idea of well-timed thoughtful notes. Perhaps as writers we are more attuned to written love languages? Blessings to you and yours!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      January 11, 2018 at 10:39 am

      Thank you for your kind words!
      I agree, as writers, we are attuned to the written love language, I never thought of it that way! Thanks for reading =)

      Reply

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I met Jesus when I was 14 years old. My brother invited me to church with him, I went, listened, and was given a Bible at the end of the service. ••••
I remember coming home and sitting on my bed with my new Bible in my hand. I sat there thinking of everything I was told that night and how it reminded me of everything I was taught when I was a little girl. ••••
After sitting there for awhile, I prayed for the very first time. Out loud I said, “OK God, if you are who they say you are, then why would you send your son to die for me, why wouldn’t you just die for me?”
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Immediately, and when I say immediately I truly mean with no hesitation a thought came into my mind. I heard, “Doesn’t a parent love their child so much that they would die for them? I love you so much more then that, that I would allow my child to die for YOU.”
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The world will tell you religion is all about rules and what not to do. Can I personally tell you, that is not true. Following Jesus has given me freedom to truly live. I GET to do things because of Jesus. ••••
I get to love others because Jesus taught me how to love. 
I get to give to others because Jesus has given so much to me. 
I get to truly forgive because Jesus forgave me. 
I get to heal from the hurts life has thrown at me because Jesus has healed me. 
I get to live a life full of JOY because joy comes from Jesus! 
And sooo much more! ••••
My prayer for you is to passionately serve Jesus, have eternal life through Him, and to truly experience what is feels to live a life of freedom.
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I spent a semester in Israel during my college yea I spent a semester in Israel during my college years @seuniversity. It was two months after James and I got married so, our first few months as a married couple were spent walking the same streets of Jesus. To say it was a cool experience would be an understatement. •••••••
During my time in Israel there were two moments that took my breath away. One of those moments was being in the literally prison hole that Jesus stayed in the night before He died. •••••••
Historical sites are given a grading scale. An A site is “this is for sure the site that XYZ took place.” An B site is “XYZ took place here OR there” And a C site is “XYZ took place somewhere in this region.” •••••••
Jesus holding cell is an A site. •••••••
I stood in the prison with my fellow students and professor and his family. We sang the hymn - “I Have Decided To Follow Jesus.” It was the only time there I wept like a baby. Snot and all haha! •••••••
But man, to be where your savior was knowing what was to come and He chose to do it anyways. I’ve never felt more love in that moment then I have in my entire life. ••••••••
So today, my prayer is for you to feel that same love. To know Jesus died today for YOU and that He came back for YOU! You are His chosen child. •
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I don’t believe we will ever be in a time like t I don’t believe we will ever be in a time like this again; where we’re forced to stay home, have no schedule, and simply enjoy each other. •
•

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•

So, I want to serve you and since i cannot physically be there with you, I can pray for you. How can I be praying for you today?
•
•
HEATHERMARGIOTTA.COM
I posted last night how I would be sharing with yo I posted last night how I would be sharing with you today what the beginning of 2020 held for my family which caused me to take a pause on writing. •
•

In January we lost my sweet mother-in-law very suddenly. It was a shock to us all and has taken us a bit to wrap our minds around. •
•

In addition to the loss of my mother-in-law, we’ve been navigating some health struggles. Now, with everything going on in our world, I can say it’s def been a year so far. •
•

But, God is good. If it’s not good- then it doesn’t come from God. The enemy is very real but nothing to fear because our God is bigger. •
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I know it’s been awhile and I have a post going up tomorrow that explains what the beginning of 2020 has held for myself and my family. 
But, I wanted to get one here tonight to share something that has been on my heart. 
You cannot turn on the TV or pick up your phone without the word “COVID-19” blaring at you. While it’s wise to be informed, these are times many can become anxious, full of fear, and worry. 
Friend, this is our time. And what I mean by that, it’s the Church body’s time. It’s our time to rise up and praise the name of Jesus louder then any other name or word. 
Can I remind you that Jesus conquered every sickness and disease! 
Every. Single. One. 
When He died on that cross. 
And He rose again. 
There are a lot of different beliefs on healing, authority, and what role it plays in our life today. I want to encourage you to seek Jesus through His word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you to His truth. 
When you find yourself reading this, do me a favor and pause. Look up Psalm 91. Read it, listen to it on repeat on the Bible app, and dwell in the presence of God. 
And then, wake up tomorrow knowing you are a child of the most high King- who rescues you from every attack of the enemy, who protects you from deadly diseases, who is covering you with His feathers and providing you shelter. 
I love you, friend. I’m praying for you.
It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE! It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE!
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I've spent the past few months writing on 9 simple truths to knowing who you are in Christ. •
•
•
If you’ve been a follower of Jesus for some time, my hope is this book will be a reminder of God’s truth on who He says you are in His eyes. •
•
•
If you're new in your relationship with Christ or are still trying to figure it out and need a little more guidance on finding out who you’re  created to be, this book will be perfect for you. •
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•
I pray this mini e-book will be an encouragement to your heart and for it to be a tool you use while you share the truths of Jesus with those around you. •
•
•
If you’re already subscribed, check your inbox!
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Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 b Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 but I’m going to share my number one photo for this year. This photo represents an answer to prayer in my life and reminds me of the love and faithfulness of my Savior. •
•
•

My family and I just got back from spending a week in South Carolina for Christmas with my parents. •
•
•

Today was a day full of unpacking, cleaning, grocery shopping, and getting back into our normal routine. •
•
•

But, this morning while everyone slept I spent time praying and drinking some coffee. I have so many ideas, goals, and big dreams for my blog and this ministry. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who has used my blog posts to build a women’s ministry curriculum for her neighboring village in western part of Kenya. •
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I thought about my reader in Papua New Guinea who is new in her faith walk and a simple google search looking for more of God’s word led her to my site. •
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I thought about my reader who leads her local church with her husband here is the USA and was looking for a fellow female Christian to connect with and have a space to talk about things she can’t with those around her. •
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I thought about my reader who was diagnosed with a life altering illness and found my site while searching for scripture on healing. •
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I thought about you. The one who has visited and read time and time again. Who has listened while I shared from the deep parts of my heart on the struggles, the wins, the rejections, and the answered prayers of my life. Who has sent encouraging messages, shared feelings, and prayers. Who has in turn opened up to me and shared from the depths of their heart. •
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As you know, I refer to my readers as ‘friend’ and that’s because a friend shows up, listens, encourages, shares, and prays. So, thank you. Thank you for being a friend. 
I’m looking forward to this new year with you as I share more of what God continues to lay on my heart. I’ll continue to look forward to hear from you as we do this journey of life together. •
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Love you friend.
Hi, friend. • • • I’ve been taking things Hi, friend. •
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I’ve been taking things slow over here to enjoy as much of this baby season as humanly possible. Getting to hold and kiss Colton everyday, all day long is a huge blessing I don’t want to take for granted. •
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Because of that, my writing and speaking have been moving slower. I’ve had moments where I’ve shared with James the tug and pull I feel everyday, each week. There’s so many things I want to be doing, creating, sharing but I have to pick and choose right now. •
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Tonight, I was feeding Colton before putting him to bed. When he was done with his bottle I sat it down but kept holding him while finishing a tv show. I heard him cooing and I look down and this precious face was staring up at me with the sweetest smile. •
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Pure joy and love on his face. •
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Friend, here’s your friendly reminder to keep on praying and believing that God has already won the battle, flattened the mountain, and straightened your path. •
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After 2 and 1/2 years of barrenness and praying for this beautiful baby, my Heavenly Father so lovingly answered my prayer with the sweetest boy. •
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I feel closer to Jesus because I pressed into Him during my waiting season and I want the same for you. •
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Press in. •
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And when your prayer is answered: enjoy. every. part. of. it. •
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Even if that means other things need to move slower. •
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Love you, friend. ❤️
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