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What Is Feeding Your Spirit And Why It’s Important To Know Your Source

in Relationships, Spiritual Growth on 01/24/19

Sometimes the way people talk to you has more to do with the way they view themselves than the way they view you.

And

Sometimes the way you talk to people has more to do with the way you view yourself than the way you view the person you’re talking to.

One evening I was sitting in the living talking with James about how I’ve been hurt by the way someone in my life had been speaking to me and treating me.

At one point in the conversation, I started to cry while I talked about this friendship and my confusion. I was confused on what I could have done to cause this person to speak negatively to me on a consistent basis for a while especially since it wasn’t like that prior. I asked James how they could be so quick to dismiss me and I was starting to feel the feelings of rejection.

James, who knew the details and inner workings of the situation, encouraged me to look beyond what I was seeing. He expressed how we don’t always know what’s going on in someone’s life that causes them to act or react the way they do.

There are many battles our friends or family members are facing that we may never know about so not only should we continuously be praying for them, we need to be careful to not let rejection take root in our heart.

Matthew 15:11 says, “It’s not what goes into your mouth that defiles you; you are defiled by the words that come out of your mouth.”

Matthew 15:16 says, “Don’t you understand yet?” Jesus asked, “Anything you eat passes through the stomach and then goes into the sewer. But the words you speak come from the heart- that’s what defiles you. For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all sexual immorality, theft, lying, and slander. These are what defile you. Eating with unwashed hands will never defile you.”

Where things in your life come from can determine how it comes out. What Jesus is saying here is, what you eat goes in one way and comes out, you know, the other end 😉 But what’s in our heart is what comes out of our mouth and that is where life or death happens.

You need to know where your food is coming from to know what is feeding your heart. You must know your source.

If you’re choosing to only “eat” bad, more than likely what comes out will be unhealthy.

When you know who your source is, you will guard your heart and not allow your mind to be tempted by the things you see and hear. Your thoughts won’t be evil and your actions won’t be sinful.

When you know who your source is, you won’t believe the lie that your poor doctor’s report is your death sentence. Your words will be words of health and healing.

When you know who your source is, you won’t believe the lies of your situation and let fear take over. Your words won’t be of uncertainty, instead, they will be full of faith for your secured outcome.

When you know who your source is, the words of negativity you’ve been on the receiving end won’t fester in your heart and come back out onto an undeserving individual. Your heart will be guarded and healed so your mouth will overflow with words of encouragement.

You must know where your food is coming from, you must know your source. Because when the majority goes one way, you will go the other. When the majority is fearful you will stop, turn around, and go back- because you know who your source is.

You will know who the one was that saved you. You will know the one who healed you, who set you free, and who reached His hand out to you and pulled you out of your pit. You will know the one who cleansed you and transformed your mind.

Friend, know who your food is coming from.

Is it coming from the lies of the world and Satan, or are they coming from the living Word of God?

John 6:26-27 says, “Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, you want to be with me because I fed you, not because you understood the miraculous signs. But don’t be so concerned about perishable things like food. Spend your energy seeking the eternal life that the Son of Man can give you…”

John 6:35 Jesus replied, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never be hungry again. Whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.”

When you live daily on the bread of life you will walk a life full of truth.

The way you treat people will come from a heart full of scripture and not from a heart that is broken and hurting. The way you respond and react to life difficulties or the shortcomings of those around you will be full of faith, grace and love.

All because you chose to go to the one who feeds your spirit, your bread of life, Jesus Christ.

There will be plenty of times in your life where you will be taken aback by the way someone treats or speaks to you. That is when you can take a step back from the relationship and do some evaluating.

With the guidance of the Holy Spirit, you can prayerfully seek if there have been actions on your end that caused that person to respond and react to you in the manner they did.

However, there will be times with the guidance of the Holy Spirit you will be able to evaluate the situation and know in your heart that there haven’t been any actions on your end like James suggested to me.

But most importantly, spend time evaluating your actions and how you’re treating others. Are you frustrated with a family situation that you’re allowing to come back out in the way you speak to your friends? Are you hurt by the actions of your spouse and you allow that to affect the way you treat your children?

Friend, can I encourage you today to prayerfully reflect on on your words? What food are you eating and where is it coming from? Food from the world or the bread of life-Jesus? 

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  1. Summer says

    January 24, 2019 at 10:48 pm

    “The way you treat people will come from a heart full of scripture and not from a heart that is broken and hurting. The way you respond and react to life difficulties or the shortcomings of those around you will be full of faith, grace and love.” Talk about being convicted! Thanks for speaking truth!

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  2. Chrissie says

    January 24, 2019 at 11:36 pm

    Amen! And I love how your husband prompted you to look “beyond” what was happening. Very early in primary school we had to memorise Matthew7:12 and it has stuck with me since then and become a core value of how I live my life, “do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. As an adult, I realised that what I feed on affects what I give out. I guard my heart closely. A great reminder of something I value quite deeply. Bless you my friend xx

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  3. Keith Haney says

    January 26, 2019 at 3:06 pm

    What a beautiful and well-written post. And your blog is very professional looking.

    Reply
    • hmargiotta says

      January 31, 2019 at 9:51 pm

      Thank you for the kinds words and compliment!

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Happy Easter!! •••• I met Jesus when I was Happy Easter!!
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I remember coming home and sitting on my bed with my new Bible in my hand. I sat there thinking of everything I was told that night and how it reminded me of everything I was taught when I was a little girl. ••••
After sitting there for awhile, I prayed for the very first time. Out loud I said, “OK God, if you are who they say you are, then why would you send your son to die for me, why wouldn’t you just die for me?”
••••
Immediately, and when I say immediately I truly mean with no hesitation a thought came into my mind. I heard, “Doesn’t a parent love their child so much that they would die for them? I love you so much more then that, that I would allow my child to die for YOU.”
••••
I knew the thought that had entered my mind was not from me. I knew it was God speaking directly to me. Since that day, I’ve followed Jesus, learning more about Him, and have dedicated my life to sharing about eternal life through Christ and all the goodness He is. ••••
The world will tell you religion is all about rules and what not to do. Can I personally tell you, that is not true. Following Jesus has given me freedom to truly live. I GET to do things because of Jesus. ••••
I get to love others because Jesus taught me how to love. 
I get to give to others because Jesus has given so much to me. 
I get to truly forgive because Jesus forgave me. 
I get to heal from the hurts life has thrown at me because Jesus has healed me. 
I get to live a life full of JOY because joy comes from Jesus! 
And sooo much more! ••••
My prayer for you is to passionately serve Jesus, have eternal life through Him, and to truly experience what is feels to live a life of freedom.
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I spent a semester in Israel during my college yea I spent a semester in Israel during my college years @seuniversity. It was two months after James and I got married so, our first few months as a married couple were spent walking the same streets of Jesus. To say it was a cool experience would be an understatement. •••••••
During my time in Israel there were two moments that took my breath away. One of those moments was being in the literally prison hole that Jesus stayed in the night before He died. •••••••
Historical sites are given a grading scale. An A site is “this is for sure the site that XYZ took place.” An B site is “XYZ took place here OR there” And a C site is “XYZ took place somewhere in this region.” •••••••
Jesus holding cell is an A site. •••••••
I stood in the prison with my fellow students and professor and his family. We sang the hymn - “I Have Decided To Follow Jesus.” It was the only time there I wept like a baby. Snot and all haha! •••••••
But man, to be where your savior was knowing what was to come and He chose to do it anyways. I’ve never felt more love in that moment then I have in my entire life. ••••••••
So today, my prayer is for you to feel that same love. To know Jesus died today for YOU and that He came back for YOU! You are His chosen child. •
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•
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•
• •
•
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I don’t believe we will ever be in a time like t I don’t believe we will ever be in a time like this again; where we’re forced to stay home, have no schedule, and simply enjoy each other. •
•

My heart is with all those who are working in the medical field and all the families affected by COVID-19. We lost my uncle this morning to this horrible virus. I’ve been praying for my family and yours and will continue to do so. •
•

So, I want to serve you and since i cannot physically be there with you, I can pray for you. How can I be praying for you today?
•
•
HEATHERMARGIOTTA.COM
I posted last night how I would be sharing with yo I posted last night how I would be sharing with you today what the beginning of 2020 held for my family which caused me to take a pause on writing. •
•

In January we lost my sweet mother-in-law very suddenly. It was a shock to us all and has taken us a bit to wrap our minds around. •
•

In addition to the loss of my mother-in-law, we’ve been navigating some health struggles. Now, with everything going on in our world, I can say it’s def been a year so far. •
•

But, God is good. If it’s not good- then it doesn’t come from God. The enemy is very real but nothing to fear because our God is bigger. •
•

So, Today, I want to take a moment to share with you what losing my sweet mother-in-law has taught me. It’s something we can all learn from and I hope it blesses you and encourages you. •
•
LINK IN BIO
Hi, friend. I know it’s been awhile and I have Hi, friend. 
I know it’s been awhile and I have a post going up tomorrow that explains what the beginning of 2020 has held for myself and my family. 
But, I wanted to get one here tonight to share something that has been on my heart. 
You cannot turn on the TV or pick up your phone without the word “COVID-19” blaring at you. While it’s wise to be informed, these are times many can become anxious, full of fear, and worry. 
Friend, this is our time. And what I mean by that, it’s the Church body’s time. It’s our time to rise up and praise the name of Jesus louder then any other name or word. 
Can I remind you that Jesus conquered every sickness and disease! 
Every. Single. One. 
When He died on that cross. 
And He rose again. 
There are a lot of different beliefs on healing, authority, and what role it plays in our life today. I want to encourage you to seek Jesus through His word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you to His truth. 
When you find yourself reading this, do me a favor and pause. Look up Psalm 91. Read it, listen to it on repeat on the Bible app, and dwell in the presence of God. 
And then, wake up tomorrow knowing you are a child of the most high King- who rescues you from every attack of the enemy, who protects you from deadly diseases, who is covering you with His feathers and providing you shelter. 
I love you, friend. I’m praying for you.
It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE! It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE!
•
•
•
🎉🎉🎉
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•
•
As a THANK YOU for being here AND being an email subscriber you will receive Loving The Life You Live E-Book with a printable Manifesto for FREE!
•
•
•
I've spent the past few months writing on 9 simple truths to knowing who you are in Christ. •
•
•
If you’ve been a follower of Jesus for some time, my hope is this book will be a reminder of God’s truth on who He says you are in His eyes. •
•
•
If you're new in your relationship with Christ or are still trying to figure it out and need a little more guidance on finding out who you’re  created to be, this book will be perfect for you. •
•
•
I pray this mini e-book will be an encouragement to your heart and for it to be a tool you use while you share the truths of Jesus with those around you. •
•
•
If you’re already subscribed, check your inbox!
•
•
•
If you're not a subscriber, click the LINK IN BIO and enter your email address.
Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 b Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 but I’m going to share my number one photo for this year. This photo represents an answer to prayer in my life and reminds me of the love and faithfulness of my Savior. •
•
•

My family and I just got back from spending a week in South Carolina for Christmas with my parents. •
•
•

Today was a day full of unpacking, cleaning, grocery shopping, and getting back into our normal routine. •
•
•

But, this morning while everyone slept I spent time praying and drinking some coffee. I have so many ideas, goals, and big dreams for my blog and this ministry. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who has used my blog posts to build a women’s ministry curriculum for her neighboring village in western part of Kenya. •
•
•

I thought about my reader in Papua New Guinea who is new in her faith walk and a simple google search looking for more of God’s word led her to my site. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who leads her local church with her husband here is the USA and was looking for a fellow female Christian to connect with and have a space to talk about things she can’t with those around her. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who was diagnosed with a life altering illness and found my site while searching for scripture on healing. •
•
•

I thought about you. The one who has visited and read time and time again. Who has listened while I shared from the deep parts of my heart on the struggles, the wins, the rejections, and the answered prayers of my life. Who has sent encouraging messages, shared feelings, and prayers. Who has in turn opened up to me and shared from the depths of their heart. •
•
•

As you know, I refer to my readers as ‘friend’ and that’s because a friend shows up, listens, encourages, shares, and prays. So, thank you. Thank you for being a friend. 
I’m looking forward to this new year with you as I share more of what God continues to lay on my heart. I’ll continue to look forward to hear from you as we do this journey of life together. •
•
•

Love you friend.
Hi, friend. • • • I’ve been taking things Hi, friend. •
•
•
I’ve been taking things slow over here to enjoy as much of this baby season as humanly possible. Getting to hold and kiss Colton everyday, all day long is a huge blessing I don’t want to take for granted. •
•
•
Because of that, my writing and speaking have been moving slower. I’ve had moments where I’ve shared with James the tug and pull I feel everyday, each week. There’s so many things I want to be doing, creating, sharing but I have to pick and choose right now. •
•
•
Tonight, I was feeding Colton before putting him to bed. When he was done with his bottle I sat it down but kept holding him while finishing a tv show. I heard him cooing and I look down and this precious face was staring up at me with the sweetest smile. •
•
•
Pure joy and love on his face. •
•
•
Friend, here’s your friendly reminder to keep on praying and believing that God has already won the battle, flattened the mountain, and straightened your path. •
•
•
After 2 and 1/2 years of barrenness and praying for this beautiful baby, my Heavenly Father so lovingly answered my prayer with the sweetest boy. •
•
•
I feel closer to Jesus because I pressed into Him during my waiting season and I want the same for you. •
•
•
Press in. •
•
•
And when your prayer is answered: enjoy. every. part. of. it. •
•
•
Even if that means other things need to move slower. •
•
•
Love you, friend. ❤️
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