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Stop Hiding: 4 Tips To Be More Transparent And Why It’s Important

in Relationships, Spiritual Growth on 06/28/18

A few years ago James and I were facing a dilemma while working on a project. We started to see things we didn’t agree with and knew we needed to talk to our friends about it if we were going to stay involved. We asked to meet so we could discuss the concerns and every day leading up to the meeting James and I prayed. We prayed for our voices to be heard, our hearts to be seen, and for transparency to be welcomed. We went into that meeting covered in prayer. We knew it was a big step on our end and we would have the non-favorable opinion but we couldn’t be apart of something that had changed into something we didn’t agree with.

While we calmly and with love shared from our hearts the concerns we were seeing and how we didn’t ethically agree, we were, unfortunately, met with great opposition.

We watched as our friends spoke to us in a hurtful manner with raised voices and pointed fingers. It was heartbreaking as we sat and saw everything we worked so hard for crumble right in front of us. It was even more painful to have entered into a conversation with love and transparency to then leave with your expectations shattered. To make matters worse, a few days later, the transparency James and I showed was used against us.

Our hearts were full of love and we thought our transparency would be welcomed with open arms.

Has this ever happened to you?

You were transparent with someone you thought you could trust but ended up having it used against you.

Or the way they responded to your transparency hurt so much that you fear being transparent again.

Maybe you want to be transparent but it’s hard and you’re not sure who you can trust.

I want to encourage you to prayerfully consider opening up by sharing more and shed the desire for self-preservation.

The truth is, it hurts when you open up and people laugh at you. It stings when you share about your current situation and people think less of you. It’s heartbreaking when you express your thoughts or feelings and have it used against you.

But, you still need to do it anyways. Why? Because the one thing God has shown me is through my open heart, no matter how hard it is to share, God can use my transparency to encourage others.

There will be friends, family members, and even strangers who will not laugh at you, think less of you, or use it against you. They will value your words and respect your transparency. They will remember your words as words of encouragement and lean on it when their road gets rough.

There will always be a risk when it comes to being open. Sometimes you will have to ask yourself if the risk is worth it, but most of all, allow the Holy Spirit to guide you.

4 Tips On How To Be More Transparent:

1. Time: When you’re building a new friendship get to know them and see how they talk about others. Are they sharing everyone else’s personal information with you or do they only speak highly of others? It’s safe to assume if they talk about everyone to you- they talk about you to everyone.

2. Gentle Start: Start slowly by sharing a little at a time. Watch how they respond, are they encouraging or critical? Do they tend to turn the conversation from you back to them? When you see how someone treats small information it will give you an idea of how they handle big information.

3. Discernment: Knowing who you can share what with is key. Some people are wonderful at listening to struggles you may be having at work and be encouraging. But they may not be the same way when it comes to family issues. You may not have one individual you can talk to about everything and that’s ok. Allow that to happen, if not, you’re going to be hurt over and over again. People are on all different walks of life and naturally only relate to certain things.

4. Forgiveness: Understand people will be people. You can take all the precautions in the world and people will still mess up. People will still fail, make mistakes, and hurt you in the process. Extending forgiveness, learning from the experience, and moving forward healed will prevent you from closing up. Learning along the way who you can and can’t be open with is key. This takes time, trial and error, and maturity. And always remember, when people break your trust- it shows more about them than it does you.

Proverbs 16:24 says, “Kind words are like honey-sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”

Be the friend who others can be transparent with. Be the one who always encourages and uplifts FIRST. You may not personally understand what your friend is going through, but offering compassion is everything.

More often than not, your friend doesn’t need to be told how to fix their problem. They simply need a listening ear and confirmed on how hard what they’re dealing with really is. When the time comes for advice or correction- in a healthy relationship- it will come naturally. It doesn’t need to be forced or sought after.

Do you struggle with transparency or have a time where it greatly helped you? Share your experience below so we all can be encouraged by your story.

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  1. Lacey N says

    June 28, 2018 at 7:36 pm

    I really needed this post in my life right now! While I read this post, I couldn’t help but think of a particular friendship that has been more than a little rough lately. I think I have reached the forgiveness stage, but you have very astutely described the stages I have worked through to get to that point.

    I also couldn’t agree more that transparency is so important.

    Thank you for writing such a profoundly beautiful piece ♥️

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 2, 2018 at 11:43 am

      Thank you, Lacey for reading and commenting. It’s such a blessing to hear this post spoke to you. I’m praying for you and that friendship today, for God to give you wisdom and discernment over it.

      Reply
  2. CherishingFlo says

    June 28, 2018 at 8:25 pm

    This is so true. Opening up to people can be so hard to be honest but these steps can make it seem a lot less intimidating.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 2, 2018 at 11:42 am

      Yes!

      Reply
  3. Heather Hart says

    June 28, 2018 at 8:30 pm

    This is such a great post. I’ve been in a situation where I opened up, and someone responded with hurtful words. That’s never easy, but I still believe there is a great value to being open, honest, and vulnerable.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      June 29, 2018 at 12:31 am

      Totally agree!

      Reply
  4. Tatyana says

    June 28, 2018 at 9:15 pm

    Great article with some clear advice! Transparency can be difficult but it is needed for authentic relationships. Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      June 29, 2018 at 12:30 am

      Thank you!

      Reply
  5. Talin says

    June 28, 2018 at 9:29 pm

    This is great advice! Thanks so much!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      June 29, 2018 at 12:30 am

      Thank you!

      Reply
  6. Crystal @EatDrinkCLE says

    June 29, 2018 at 11:07 am

    It’s so hard! And I think we’ve all had this happen before. I prefer to be honest with people in situations like these but unfortunately people don’t take the time to REALLY hear what your saying. If they did, they would hear the love and concern and respond better. Real conversations aren’t always easy, but they are necessary for real relationships.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 2, 2018 at 11:42 am

      I agree, before people actually listen and hear what the other person is saying they tend to jump to defense.

      Reply
  7. Melissa Henderson says

    June 29, 2018 at 4:07 pm

    Great wisdom in this message. Transparency can bring difficult times but can also bring awakening times full of blessings for others and for us. Asking God for wisdom, discernment and revelation in being transparent is important.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 2, 2018 at 11:41 am

      Yes! I totally agree! Wisdom, discernment, and revelation… I love that!

      Reply
  8. Anna McConnell says

    July 1, 2018 at 9:59 am

    This is a great post and I struggle with this at this stage in my life. This article did give me some things to think about as I move forward.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 2, 2018 at 11:37 am

      How wonderful to hear, Anna! Thank you for sharing!

      Reply
  9. Heather Hancock says

    July 2, 2018 at 1:38 pm

    A great post. I agree wholeheartedly with the 4 points and have endured much similar reactions over the years. I would add a 5th point (placing it under Discernment, which is vital). WISDOM is needed in knowing who to trust with what and when. Blessings!

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 5, 2018 at 4:36 pm

      Yes! Wisdom is key! That’s a great point added, thank you.

      Reply
  10. Aminata Coote says

    July 2, 2018 at 1:48 pm

    Your advice is spot on Heather! As daughters of God we need to know how to be transparent.

    Reply
    • Heather says

      July 5, 2018 at 4:36 pm

      Thank you!

      Reply
  11. Heidi Bee says

    July 2, 2018 at 3:09 pm

    Wonderful article being transparent and sharing truth can be so hard, but so needed.

    Reply
  12. iz | izzabelle.co says

    July 2, 2018 at 5:38 pm

    Great post! I definitely see the value in being vulnerable, but it’s difficult to do that with everyone. But being open with my fears and struggles has definitely helped to deepen many friendships in my life <3

    Reply

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I remember coming home and sitting on my bed with my new Bible in my hand. I sat there thinking of everything I was told that night and how it reminded me of everything I was taught when I was a little girl. ••••
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••••
Immediately, and when I say immediately I truly mean with no hesitation a thought came into my mind. I heard, “Doesn’t a parent love their child so much that they would die for them? I love you so much more then that, that I would allow my child to die for YOU.”
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I knew the thought that had entered my mind was not from me. I knew it was God speaking directly to me. Since that day, I’ve followed Jesus, learning more about Him, and have dedicated my life to sharing about eternal life through Christ and all the goodness He is. ••••
The world will tell you religion is all about rules and what not to do. Can I personally tell you, that is not true. Following Jesus has given me freedom to truly live. I GET to do things because of Jesus. ••••
I get to love others because Jesus taught me how to love. 
I get to give to others because Jesus has given so much to me. 
I get to truly forgive because Jesus forgave me. 
I get to heal from the hurts life has thrown at me because Jesus has healed me. 
I get to live a life full of JOY because joy comes from Jesus! 
And sooo much more! ••••
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I spent a semester in Israel during my college yea I spent a semester in Israel during my college years @seuniversity. It was two months after James and I got married so, our first few months as a married couple were spent walking the same streets of Jesus. To say it was a cool experience would be an understatement. •••••••
During my time in Israel there were two moments that took my breath away. One of those moments was being in the literally prison hole that Jesus stayed in the night before He died. •••••••
Historical sites are given a grading scale. An A site is “this is for sure the site that XYZ took place.” An B site is “XYZ took place here OR there” And a C site is “XYZ took place somewhere in this region.” •••••••
Jesus holding cell is an A site. •••••••
I stood in the prison with my fellow students and professor and his family. We sang the hymn - “I Have Decided To Follow Jesus.” It was the only time there I wept like a baby. Snot and all haha! •••••••
But man, to be where your savior was knowing what was to come and He chose to do it anyways. I’ve never felt more love in that moment then I have in my entire life. ••••••••
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•

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I posted last night how I would be sharing with yo I posted last night how I would be sharing with you today what the beginning of 2020 held for my family which caused me to take a pause on writing. •
•

In January we lost my sweet mother-in-law very suddenly. It was a shock to us all and has taken us a bit to wrap our minds around. •
•

In addition to the loss of my mother-in-law, we’ve been navigating some health struggles. Now, with everything going on in our world, I can say it’s def been a year so far. •
•

But, God is good. If it’s not good- then it doesn’t come from God. The enemy is very real but nothing to fear because our God is bigger. •
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Hi, friend. I know it’s been awhile and I have Hi, friend. 
I know it’s been awhile and I have a post going up tomorrow that explains what the beginning of 2020 has held for myself and my family. 
But, I wanted to get one here tonight to share something that has been on my heart. 
You cannot turn on the TV or pick up your phone without the word “COVID-19” blaring at you. While it’s wise to be informed, these are times many can become anxious, full of fear, and worry. 
Friend, this is our time. And what I mean by that, it’s the Church body’s time. It’s our time to rise up and praise the name of Jesus louder then any other name or word. 
Can I remind you that Jesus conquered every sickness and disease! 
Every. Single. One. 
When He died on that cross. 
And He rose again. 
There are a lot of different beliefs on healing, authority, and what role it plays in our life today. I want to encourage you to seek Jesus through His word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you to His truth. 
When you find yourself reading this, do me a favor and pause. Look up Psalm 91. Read it, listen to it on repeat on the Bible app, and dwell in the presence of God. 
And then, wake up tomorrow knowing you are a child of the most high King- who rescues you from every attack of the enemy, who protects you from deadly diseases, who is covering you with His feathers and providing you shelter. 
I love you, friend. I’m praying for you.
It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE! It's 2020 and with a New Year comes a new FREEBIE!
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•
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I've spent the past few months writing on 9 simple truths to knowing who you are in Christ. •
•
•
If you’ve been a follower of Jesus for some time, my hope is this book will be a reminder of God’s truth on who He says you are in His eyes. •
•
•
If you're new in your relationship with Christ or are still trying to figure it out and need a little more guidance on finding out who you’re  created to be, this book will be perfect for you. •
•
•
I pray this mini e-book will be an encouragement to your heart and for it to be a tool you use while you share the truths of Jesus with those around you. •
•
•
If you’re already subscribed, check your inbox!
•
•
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If you're not a subscriber, click the LINK IN BIO and enter your email address.
Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 b Everyone is sharing their top 9 photos from 2019 but I’m going to share my number one photo for this year. This photo represents an answer to prayer in my life and reminds me of the love and faithfulness of my Savior. •
•
•

My family and I just got back from spending a week in South Carolina for Christmas with my parents. •
•
•

Today was a day full of unpacking, cleaning, grocery shopping, and getting back into our normal routine. •
•
•

But, this morning while everyone slept I spent time praying and drinking some coffee. I have so many ideas, goals, and big dreams for my blog and this ministry. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who has used my blog posts to build a women’s ministry curriculum for her neighboring village in western part of Kenya. •
•
•

I thought about my reader in Papua New Guinea who is new in her faith walk and a simple google search looking for more of God’s word led her to my site. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who leads her local church with her husband here is the USA and was looking for a fellow female Christian to connect with and have a space to talk about things she can’t with those around her. •
•
•

I thought about my reader who was diagnosed with a life altering illness and found my site while searching for scripture on healing. •
•
•

I thought about you. The one who has visited and read time and time again. Who has listened while I shared from the deep parts of my heart on the struggles, the wins, the rejections, and the answered prayers of my life. Who has sent encouraging messages, shared feelings, and prayers. Who has in turn opened up to me and shared from the depths of their heart. •
•
•

As you know, I refer to my readers as ‘friend’ and that’s because a friend shows up, listens, encourages, shares, and prays. So, thank you. Thank you for being a friend. 
I’m looking forward to this new year with you as I share more of what God continues to lay on my heart. I’ll continue to look forward to hear from you as we do this journey of life together. •
•
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Love you friend.
Hi, friend. • • • I’ve been taking things Hi, friend. •
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I’ve been taking things slow over here to enjoy as much of this baby season as humanly possible. Getting to hold and kiss Colton everyday, all day long is a huge blessing I don’t want to take for granted. •
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Because of that, my writing and speaking have been moving slower. I’ve had moments where I’ve shared with James the tug and pull I feel everyday, each week. There’s so many things I want to be doing, creating, sharing but I have to pick and choose right now. •
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Tonight, I was feeding Colton before putting him to bed. When he was done with his bottle I sat it down but kept holding him while finishing a tv show. I heard him cooing and I look down and this precious face was staring up at me with the sweetest smile. •
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Pure joy and love on his face. •
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Friend, here’s your friendly reminder to keep on praying and believing that God has already won the battle, flattened the mountain, and straightened your path. •
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After 2 and 1/2 years of barrenness and praying for this beautiful baby, my Heavenly Father so lovingly answered my prayer with the sweetest boy. •
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I feel closer to Jesus because I pressed into Him during my waiting season and I want the same for you. •
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Press in. •
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And when your prayer is answered: enjoy. every. part. of. it. •
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Even if that means other things need to move slower. •
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Love you, friend. ❤️
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